Ok, solved it.
Have been following other threads about similar configurations, and first really helpful response was about whether to use PPM or EX BUS.
2 empfänger können nicht (!) über ex bus gekoppelt werden. man muss ppm verwenden.
This gives the following setup on both receivers:
E1 is setup for PPM Out (16 channels)
E2 is setup for PPM In (16 channels)
E1 on the first receiver is connected to E2 on the second receiver, and vice versa
How to test the redundancy? I haven't found the description here on JetiForum, only answers like
Du kannst wohl den RSAT2 und den R18ex auf EX-BUS-Signal stellen, nur man kann es nicht überprüfen...
Exactly what bothers me, not being able to test it.
Found it by accident, and I can now see it is described in the manual under the "Drahtlosmodus/Trainer" description, just a few pages before the zwei wege/dual path description... don't just read the manual, read the ENTIRE manual seems to be the answer here.
Anyway, being able to disable each TX module at a time, allows for some proper testing.
Disable TX1 and see the RX1 antenna values drop to zero, servo connected to RX1 still working as it is getting signal from RX2. To verify disconnect cable from RX2 to RX1, servo stops responding. OK!
Repeat with opposite scenario, turn off TX2 etc... OK
Things 'missing' compared to a CB200/400
Channels 17-24 are not redundant, but I can live with that, will use them for 'near' range functions e.g. like wheelbrake.
Telemetry isn't redundant, e.g. LinkVario on RX1 will not get through if RX1 is out of range.
No fuses on each output (which I can't use anyway as wiring is done with common plus/minus).
Concept tested and ready for installation in DG-303 as replacement for dual ACT receivers (and outdated transmitter..)